At the beginning of this month I made a very quick trip to Oregon to watch my youngest brother, Caleb, graduate from high school. As I stood in the back of the auditorium near the end of the ceremony trying to keep Cooper happy while waiting to hear them announce the class of 2013 I couldn't help but reminisce of years gone by. I thought about how it's been 13 years since I graduated from high school, how when I left for college Caleb was just a little guy starting Kindergarten, how my little ones are going to be doing this someday, and how it feels like only a few years ago Caleb was just a little kid. What in the world happened and seriously where did the time go?
I know I've said this before but I've loved being a part of a big family and I think I'd even say being the oldest in a big family. Although in many ways I had to watch the youngest ones in our family grow up from afar I will always remember welcoming them to our family, babysitting them when they were little, and being there for as many of the milestones as I could. I've been a proud big sister since I can remember. I've worried about them always, felt anxious for them at times, not know what my role was in their lives during some seasons when the span of years between us made it hard to even relate, and I absolutely love this new season our family is entering. It's one where I feel like age is beginning to matter less and less and one where I'm really realizing the true blessing of having siblings who are also lifelong friends.
One of my favorite things about Caleb, since this is after all a post about his graduation, is the quiet confidence which he has always maintained amidst a great deal of harassment from all of us. We've always loved to tease one another, as I think most kids do, but if we're going to be honest Caleb has probably been subjected to more than his fair share being the youngest of 6. I remember as just a little guy he was able to zone out watching something on TV and I would pester him and pester him and he could ignore me for seemingly forever. He never let us bother him, which is probably why we tried so hard, and now he's grown into a young man who sticks to his guns no matter what anyone says. He thinks for himself, he knows that the opinions of others don't always matter, and he's confident enough to question anything that is thrown his way.
As they read the class history at graduation Caleb was mentioned as being the class theologian and I loved that! I couldn't help but think of my Dad and how proud he would have been not only of how Caleb has grown up in the past couple of years, but also of the way that Caleb questions things and is able to defend his faith. He's just like my Dad in that regard and has been since he was just a little guy. Growing up, he couldn't have been much older than 2nd grade, and I can remember him coming home and telling us that he was going to read his entire Bible, and then he actually set out to do it. For days he not only read but asked questions about what he read. What little guy does that? Caleb has never given up that passion for learning and understanding and debating. We joke that he's the smartest one of our bunch and he probably is, but the fact that he does it about things that are truly important like his faith is the reason it is really to be respected. Like I said, I'm a proud big sister and Caleb you've made us all proud once again. Congratulations! We're excited to see what your college years hold. We Love You!!!!
Robert, Me, Kendra, Caleb, Amy, and Ryan
Caleb, Robert, Ryan, Amy, Mom, Me, Kendra, and Katie
What's greater than family?
Caleb and Mom
Brothers
Caleb and Kendra
Caleb, Kendra, and cousins
Jacqueline, Taylor, and Michaelah
Grandpa and Caleb
Caleb and Uncle Kevin
Caleb and I
Caleb and Amy
Katie and my little half pint who wasn't such a nice boy to his Auntie.
Robert and Grandma GiGi